| BDSM is decoded as Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. Although it may sound to many of you perverted, some people crave to be submitted in sex, others – to be dominant. If you have a better look at your sex, some of you, to their enormous astonishment, will discover that they have already tried some elements of BDSM. Do you remember the sexual excitement you experienced when your sexual partner was touching you with an ice cube or a feather, your eyes being closed? This is an example of BDSM. It can be either sadistic and painful or highly erotic and tender. It has much in common with a love game where one desired to be subservient and the other wants to be dominant. The roles are not imposed on partners and can be interchanged.
BDSM is not a set of strict instructions you are to follow in sex. On the contrary, it is totally up to you and your sexual partner to select a scenario that will help you make your secret fantasies and dreams come true. You may use your fertile imagination to the full, no boundaries being inflicted.
BDSM has nothing to do with abuse, since an abuser does not intend to please a victim. Pain and sufferings inflicted by a dominant partner to a slavish one are not that unendurable for most people. It is very similar to massage, which is painful in the beginning, but later it gets you to the top of pleasure.
Here are some love games for you to spice up.
- The sexually exciting ice
Ice is one of the favourite adult accessories of all times. Blindfold and fasten up your partner and let him or her get excited by running an ice cube over the body. Or you can put it in your mouth and run your lips and tongue all over your partner's body. For anal and vaginal excitement make an ice dildo.
- The enthralling brush
A brush is splendid medium to make your partner excited. Blindfold and tighten your partner and touch his or her body parts with a soft brush and a stiff brush.
- The exciting clothespin
Clothespins will work perfectly, too. Clamp them on the nipples, arms, genitals and wherever you like. Do not remove them straight away. Let a shiver pass through your partner's body.
- The fabulous flogger
A flogger is a whip designed for flogging partner. A good flogger does not cause any injury. Yet, you should be cautious. Do not hit the lower back to avoid damaging kidneys. Butts, thighs and the upper back are suitable body parts to use your flogger on.
- The enticing bondage and restraint
It is advisable to make use of a regular rope to fasten your sexual partner. A spread-eagle position may be uncomfortable for your sexual partner and even painful. For those who prefer handcuffs, pick the ones that are double locked. They will not tie up even if you press or sit on them. Nevertheless, always insure that there are no sings of coldness, because excessive tightening can lead to poor blood circulation.
Try new things. Be creative in bed. |
